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The Germans have a word for it (of course they do -- those Germans).
Fremdschämen
Fremdschämen describes a peculiar kind of mortification. According to
Psychology Today blogger Daniel R. Hawes,
it's more than being embarrassed for yourself or another. It describes the almost-horror you feel when you notice that
somebody is oblivious to how embarrassing they truly are. Hawes goes on to describe a related psychological phenomena -- The Dunning-Kruger complex.
Hawes explains: "The Dunning-Kruger effect describes a cognitive bias in which people perform poorly on a task, but lack the meta-cognitive
capacity to properly evaluate their performance. As a result, such
people remain unaware of their incompetence and accordingly fail to take
any self-improvement measures that might rid them of their
incompetence."
In other words, stupid is as stupid will always and forever be.
You can read more about the Dunning-Kruger effect in Hawes'
Quilted Science column on the subject
-- "When Ignorance Begets Confidence: The Classic Dunning-Kruger." And if you find it as intriguing as I did, you'll want to dive right into Errol Morris' interview with researcher David Dunning (the Dunning in Dunning-Kruger) on
"The Anosognosic's Dilemma: Something's Wrong But You'll Never Know What It Is" in which you can learn about the Lemon Juice Bandit who thought he'd discovered the secret to invisibility.
Really.